10. – Sexuality And Partnership

In a biological sense, sexuality serves procreation. Many people these days have very immoral positions on sexuality, where morality stands here for “spiritually appropriate”. But what is the importance and meaning of sexuality from a spiritual point of view?

According to the biological structure of humans sexuality is needed for procreation, to supply the material conditions for the creation of a new material human body. This allows a soul to connect to such a body. When the right circumstances are met, the time of conception is astrologically right, and a soul is ready to come to the environment of these parents, a conception takes place. With this conception the connection of the soul with the cells forming the new body begins. In many cases the souls of mother, father and child already know each other from previous lives, in which they had some time together, although mostly under different family relations.


10.4 – Partnership Of Souls

After I only mentioned the sexual aspects of a relationship in the previous part of this chapter, I now want to come to the part that actually is the main part in a relation or at least should be. A relation between two people, that goes beyond a friendship and includes emotional and sexual aspects, offers a variety of possibilities for development of the souls. This can become a very interesting experimental field, as it needs to be experienced how to live together and how to harmonize the different views and opinions or work with them in a way that proceeding on the Path of Light together is made possible. In some cases it is possible that a soul meets a soul partner, a soul that is a partner also in a cosmic sense. This is also called a “twin soul”, although a soul can have more than one such partner, as a soul can divide itself into multiple parts to have simultaneous experiences. However, when two parts of the same soul group meet, it provides a special relationship, often with very strong ties – sometimes very harmonious, sometimes however it can be parts of the soul which are counter forces, allowing both parts to experiment with problem solving and realizing that they complement each other.

In all relations between two people there is generally the possibility that two souls either complement each other or are partially very similar. In both ways which usually are to some extent both present in any relationship, there can be harmony. To allow harmony in a relationship both partners need to learn to live together, to negotiate, to share or delegate tasks, and peacefully find solutions to problems. These tasks are not always easy to accomplish, and for many people a partial or complete termination of the relationship can occur because they feel unable to cope with the tasks of a partnership. A partial termination of a relationship may be one partner moving out, or giving up or turning over decisions to just one partner, or a slow retreat out of the relationship where both partners continue to live together but their relationship crumbles to less than a loose friendship where the “partners” either avoid contact or each lives their own life. It should however be considered that in some relationships one partner is quicker spiritually developing than the other. This can cause both partners to be hindered in their development. Under such circumstances letting go of the relationship can be a letting go in the karmic sense and therefore such a separation could bring karmic relief that is needed for spiritual progress. There is no general rule for what should be done in a difficult partnership – learning from dealing with the conflict, or separation. Generally, the spiritual importance of the relationship should be considered; in most cases the experience of working out the problems is the most sensible solution for the spiritual development, but in a few cases a separation can be useful from a spiritual view, when only one of the two partners is progressing significantly spiritually and the other partner is causing a slow down or is hindering the development, and when no severe consequences for any children are likely.


10.5 – Spiritual Partnership

In order to let a partnership become a beautiful and lasting experience, openness and honesty are the basis, as well as trust. If you want to turn a partnership into a spiritual enrichment and want to live the partnership in the sense of the spiritual path, you can use the following hints and experience how your partnership can become more and more beautiful and fulfilling.

In a partnership two spirit beings meet, that are going to live together for many years. They share housing, eat together and in many cases become parents. When both partners realize, which is the spiritual path for them, and decide to walk it together, this will become an enrichment for their relationship as well as their own spiritual development. Meditations and light work should be done together, to form a small group. The more human beings come together for a protected meditation (see chapter 4.1), the more astral beings will be attracted to the work and are helping by their side, guide light and positive energies to the group which is enhancing the spiritual work. Through this the spiritual training of these humans is pushed forward and gets prepared on the astral level. Of course there is help available to individuals as well, but the effect is stronger in group work. When a human pair devotes time to spiritual work together, that work becomes more intense and promotes advancement. Additionally, exchange of perceived experiences is possible, which is of further help.

In addition to all these advantages for the spiritual development, a partnership of human beings who are on the spiritual path learn through their spiritual development to live together. It promotes tolerance and understanding for the problems and fears of the other, for the weaknesses and faults, also through the awareness of one’s own dissolving of fears and problems. A problem, that hasn’t been recognized, cannot be solved, and thereby the spiritual development can aid in solving problems in a marriage or partnership, and dissolve new potential problems in time before they manifest. Through the sense of connectedness it soon becomes impossible to hurt one another intentionally. For spiritual growth, this sense of connectedness is essential, as it symbolizes oneness of all souls, and of all of creation, and allows humans to experience this connection, first on a small scale with the partner, and upon further development this expands into oneness with All.

Furthermore it needs to be said that living out emotions of love through caressing as well as loving sexual activities is a positive input for the emotional level of human life, and this contributes to a harmonic, balanced life. Living out love helps to balance the lower emotions of people on this planet, because these higher emotions are sent out. This is no substitute for the lightwork for mankind, however this radiates higher vibrations into the emotional plane, in contrast to the frequent low radiations of many humans in these times.


Address of Sep. 26, 2004: Life Path & Revelations

by archangel Michael

Be greeted dearest friends on earth. Be greeted and be blessed. This is a time of many challenges, a time of changes in the outside but more within. A lot of things that happen are a big challenge for some people. But there are also smaller challenges but even these challenges are important. A time of challenges has begun, a time where you have to question many things that you have taken for granted for a long time. Question why you have taken it for granted and if this is still appropriate. This is meant for all parts of your life and it is different for everyone of you as everyone has chosen a different path. Surely there are parallels or similarities in ones’ lives but still each person has his/her unique path. Even if two people walk together during a lifetime and there are many connections and similarities on their path, the development of each person will be unique. Right now many challenges lead to defeat in a way that people avoid upcoming challenges rather than facing them.

In these times there are many people who once thought they found a partner for life but when they have to face difficult situations they see that partnership as failed. There are situations where this is true, where a relationship has been only a phase of life. But there are also situations – actually in most cases – where people try to avoid their challenges by ending a partnership.

You will receive these situations so you can develop yourself. When you have learned your lesson and even if you decided differently from what your soul would have decided, as long as you have developed yourself the task has been fulfilled. In other cases however you will continuously get situations where you have to repeat the task until you get it “right”, follow the “right” path because the next task will be based on that fulfilled task, so you will be prepared and able to manage.

People are only able to fulfill their tasks when they are around other people. There are many possibilities as you meet a lot of people during your lifetime. It would be very difficult to complete your tasks if one decided to live in solitude, live all by him/herself as an eremite. On the other hand there are people that are surrounded by others but who have, within, withdrawn from them. The lack of social contact makes it difficult to get him/her to complete the tasks that are important for the soul. However there are souls who choose this path of solitude but very rarely.

You have to solve your tasks, but you have help, help from heaven, from your spirit guide and your guardian angel who protect and lead you and will show you the direction if you are willing to accept the help. We know it is not that easy to see the guidance and also to accept it because there is your logical mind which stands in your way to intuitively accept the advice. Receiving a suggestion does not necessarily mean you will also follow it. But maybe you can go within, listen within, feel what your heart tells you. Observe what thoughts come to you when you listen to your heart. If you do that, you will have access to your soul, your higher self and also to your spirit guide.